Author Regina Weston

Regina Weston is an Author and Counselor. She uses her knowledge, skills and experiences to educate and enhance the lives of women.

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

MHBlog: Guilty As Charged

Topic: Guilty As Charged

Key points of today’s topic:
Love you unconditional
Remember that it is alright to be selfish sometimes
Don't neglect yourself for someone else's happiness 
Don't live in regret
It's alright to say NO
And pursue your dreams because time waits for no man

Monday, June 15, 2015

Guilty As Charged by Regina Weston

It's time for a change, a time to reflect on where you are at this very moment in life and where you are going, and where you want to go, and how you're going to get there.

Reflect on your life for a moment and ingest these words. Many of us put others before ourselves. We sacrifice our dreams, our life to be married, to have and raise children, we take care of others, family and friends as our life past us by. While those we put before ourselves shows us their gratitude by being ungrateful in their deeds towards us, their actions and/or their words.

But today, I admonish you to take back your life. It's alright to care for others but never at the expense of yourself. It's time that you learn to take care of you before it is too late. Whatever your dream is, it is time to pursue it. Time really waits for no man. It is said that it's never too late to do this or that but that is a half truth. Do whatever it is you want to do while you have the strength, the metal capacities to do so.  

Children grow up and move on with their lives, and husbands, well, I find that they all have their to do list that don't always include their wives. And family and friends, some of them just come around when you can be of service to them. The point, women, is that it is time to be selfish. It's time to put you first and you should not feel guilty about it. (Self-Matters)

You don't have to live in regret of the would've, should've and could've because you can't change the past but you can create a new future for yourselves.  

Live and make your dreams a reality, stop putting you on the back burner. Put God and yourself first and watch the light around you began to glow brighter.

Friday, June 12, 2015

When life hands you lemons, give it back you don't have to accept everything.

Friday, June 5, 2015


If loving yourself is a narcissistic trait, then oh well. Who can love you better than you and the Master, Himself. Ladies, please love yourselves and take care of you, for the better, know that you can't be replaced. Embrace all of you and disregard all negativity its garbage and garbage stinks therefore get rid of it.

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Mother To Child by Regina Weston

Let me start off by saying that I’m sorry. As a mother, your mother, my desire was and is to shield you from pain and hurt. Anything that would make you feel other than complete happiness but this is the real world. And in the real world, come joy, happiness as well as despair, disappointment and sadness.

When you were born and I held you in my arms, I never thought that I would have to bury you while you were yet in your teens or early twenties but unfortunately this is the reality for so many mothers, having to bury their children.

Baby, your life is being shortened do to gang violence, police brutality, drug abuse, suicide, homicide and acts of random violence. We live in a cruel world and this is not the world I envisioned you living in, and for that, I say I’m sorry. I’m remorseful that I couldn't give you the fairy tale life I dreamt of you having. The only thing I have to say dear daughter and son of mine is that life is not always what you try to make it, but don’t stop doing your best to be the best. It was said that we will overcome. Well, I may not see that day of your child overcoming but I hope that you do and your children’s, children do, because something has to change and very soon.    

However all has not been lost for some mothers; some of their children have escaped the tragedies of life and have become something to be proud of. And because of that, I’m happy for those mothers who haven’t had to identify their child at the county morgue or look down into a casket as their child lay stiff, soon to turn to dust that blows in the wind and vanish along with their child’s hopes and dreams of what they could’ve been and could’ve accomplished. 

My child, daughter and son, I just wanted you to know that I did my best in raising you with values, and moral principles. Therefore take what I have tried to instill in you and do your very best with it. Try to avoid the tragedies spoken of in this letter to you and know that mother loves you and pray the best for you. I hope that you get to live well into your thirties and forties and many more years after that, and if you do, please make them count in a meaningful way, remembering those who weren't as fortunate as you.


Wednesday, April 29, 2015


Regina Weston will be signing her new book, "Girl Talk...The Art Of Love… Betrayal And Gold Digging 101" on:
May 9, 2015 @ 225 W Pantego St, Belhaven, NC 27810

10 am - 2 pm 

Thursday, April 9, 2015

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