Thursday, October 1, 2015

"When you love yourself, you don't focus on who don't love you. Self-love is very important. When you love you, there is no need to impress others. And when you love you, you can love others freely, despite the hate coming from them. This comes when you love you, totally, flaws and all. It's time to love all of you, if you don't who will other than God?" -Regina Weston

Thursday, September 10, 2015

MH Blog Looking 4 Luv In The Wrong Places and Ways

Topic: Looking for Love, Attention and Recognition in the wrong places and from the wrong people.

Key points of today’s topic:

•Take a self-esteem inventory: you can't fix what you don't know is broken.
•Set realistic expectations.
•Be willing to adjust your own self-image for the better.
•Care about the messages that you are sending outward and subliminally.
• Don't try to mimic or live up to the negative images of others.
•Don't dress inappropriately and get rid of the foul language and rude behavior.
•Make wise decisions when shopping, if it doesn't fit or doesn't look right; let it stay on the clothes rack.

Monday, August 17, 2015

Married But Living The Single Life by Regina Weston

How many women are married to men that live as though they are single? A show of hands or a few amen's, is all that is needed for confirmation.

Why is this, I ask sincerely?

These husband expects their wives to fulfill all their wifely duties, and then some but what a husband is suppose to do, well, the handbook rules does not apply to them. They come and go as the please, and/or do what they please with no regards to what you feel or think about it. Your concerns, thoughts, when expressed go on death ears.

My question is, why get married if you want to be single, and live the life of a bachelor? When you're single you don't have to answers to a wife or a mate. But when you are married things are different, you have to answer to that person.

The reality is that people, men and women, get married for many reasons. The right reasons, the wrong reasons, the selfish reasons, and self-serving reasons. People need to be honest with who they really are and what they want in a relationship and a marriage and stop selling pipe dreams filled with nothing but smoke and mirrors.

For the ladies that want to be married be careful before you say, "I Do." If reds flags are flashing before your eyes before you're married to that man, pay attention to them. Don't ignore them! Warnings do come before destruction. The key words for today are "Thinking, before you leap into a forever contract."

When two people join in a union that is to death do you part, love, mutual respect for each other's thoughts and feelings, trust and communication should be at the forefront of the mind and intent of the hearts of those individuals. And if you're dating someone that is selfish, self-centered, narcissistic, controlling, those characteristic don't change after saying, I Do, things get more intense because now this person feels that you have to accept what they do or how they act.   

Marry what you willing to deal with is my advice to you. If you know how someone is, don't complain about what you already knew after the fact. The only one you have the power to change is yourself. 

Thursday, August 6, 2015

Friday, July 17, 2015

MH Blog Topic Quitting Is Not An Option EP 5

Key points of today’s topic:

·        1. Don't give up, deal with the issues in
your life and regroup accordingly 
·        2. Remember that others are watching you,
to see how you are going to handle the adversities in    your life and their looking
to you for strength to help them to make it, saying if she can do it, then so  can I.
·       3.  Don't compare yourself to others
because we all think and deal with things differently
·        4. Leave a legacy behind that others can
gleam from
·        5. And know that it's alright to cry but
after the tears has dried, pick yourself up and keep it pushing  forward

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

"If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we aren't really living." -Gail Sheehy
 "So why not give it a try and see how it works for you." - Regina Weston

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

"The price of doing the same old thing is far higher than the price of change." -Bill Clinton

"If life is passing you by it is time for a change, stop wasting precious time because it waits for no man. Don't live in regret, live and leave behind a legacy." - Regina Weston